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Asian
Business Etiquette: Shaking Hands - "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
By Angi
Ma Wong
The dead fish
is the second of the common handshakes. Also known as the wet towel,
this handshake is always a whimpy, limp, non-grasping action that
usually leaves you wanting to shudder and say "Yuck!" Should you
encounter the dead fish or wet towel, immediately gentle your grasp,
shake, and let go.
A close relative
to the dead fish handshake is the slime, also known as a low five.
You extend your hand out and encounter this non-substantive touch
of four fingers to your palm and is withdrawn by the giver almost
immediately almost as quickly as it came. Don't reach and try to
go after the hand! Accept the handshaking the spirit that it was
given...as a deference to American custom.
My rsonal favorite
is the combo which is gaining much popularity on both sides of the
Pacific. I like and teach this handshake because it is the most
respectful melding of Western and Eastern business and social custom.
The combo starts with a traditional handshake as each party extends
his/her hand, concluding in a bow over the two clasped, shaking
hands. Aaah...the perfect global bridge.
Next:
Shaking Hands - "The Non-Handshake" (Part 3)
- Bowing
- What
If Someone Bows To You First?
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 1)
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands:- "The Grip" (Part 1)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Non-Handshake" (Part 3)
- "Silence
is Golden"
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