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Asian
Business Etiquette: Bowing
By
Angi Ma Wong
Throughout Asia,
the bow is a gesture of humility and respect. In Japan, it is practically
an art form, and to most other Asians, it is an integral part of
social and business etiquette learned at a very young age. It can
be executed slowly and deeply to give "great face" to the ruler
of a country, or it can just be a quick nodding of the head while
sidestepping.
The action of
the bow comes from the waist. Keep your back and head straight,
in line with each other. Men, put your hands at your sides with
the palm flat against your thighs. Ladies, you have a choice and
may do whichever you find more natural to you. You may place your
hands in front, overlapping one another in what I call the "fig-leaf"
position, or you may keep your hands on your sides as the men do.
Remember that
you are not Gary Cooper at the O.K. Corral, so your legs should
not be wide apart. Your feet should be an inch or two away from
each other, side by side, but not smack up against one another or
you will lose your balance and wobble. The speed of the bow depends
upon the situation.
The slower and
deeper the bow, the greater deference you are showing to the person
to whom you are bowing. Be sure to look at the floor - no peeking
or craning your neck, you might get a crick in it. Generally, if
you are bowed to first by an Asian you should always return it.
The reason is that you shouldn't make any assumptions and automatically
bow to any Asian-looking customer walking through your doors. It
might just be my fifth-generation American son coming in through
the door.
Next:
What If Someone Bows to You First?
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