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Asian
Business Etiquette: Exchanging Business Cards - P1
By Angi
Ma Wong
Before you reach
for your business card, take a few minute to envision it in your
mind. Has it been professionally typeset and printed on a handsome
card stock? Are your company's name, address, and telephone number
current? Is your name and title clear? Are the telephone, fax numbers
and e-mail address adequately separated so that someone reading
either in a hurry doesn't accidentally dial the wrong one?
Gentlemen and
ladies, imagine taking your business card out of your billfold or
purse. Contained inside are your many personal items such as credit
cards, photographs, driver's license, paycheck stubs, and for men,
trouser lint, etc. Those personal effects are exposed for all to
see if you keep your cards in your wallet. Moreover, men, you sit
on your wallet, thereby ironing your cards to confirm to your rear
end! I suggest that you keep them in the inside pocket of your suit
or blazer which is usually hung up at the office until you need
to wear it. Women, carry them in your blazer's pocket or within
easy reach so you don't start awkwardly digging around the bottom
of your purse.
Better still,
invest in one of the many attractive metal (non-crushable) card
holders, available at stationary stores to keep your business cards
crisp and clean at all times.
When asked for
your card, bring your card out from its storage place (pocket or
holder). Glance down at the card and make sure of two things: 1)
it is YOUR card (most of us store collected cards together with
our own) and 2) that the printing is facing the recipient.
Present your
card with dignity, holding the top right corner with your thumb
and index finger of your right hand. Better yet, present it holding
the upper two corners while giving a slight bow. If someone gives
you his card with one or two hands, show how respectful you are
by receiving it with TWO hands, taking it with your thumbs on the
bottom corners.
While we treat
our business cards casually, even flippantly, most Asian business
people do not, especially the Japanese who make much ceremony of
the exchange of meishi. A business card represents the person whose
name appears on it and therefore must be treated with the same respect
as you would the person. Do not flip it over and start writing notes
on the back. To do so is a serious affront. Even though you are
exchanging cards over a Chinese banquet table, do so seriously.
Next:
Exchanging Business Cards - Part 2
- Bowing
- What
If Someone Bows To You First?
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 1)
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands:- "The Grip" (Part 1)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Non-Handshake" (Part 3)
- "Silence
is Golden"
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