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Asian
Business Etiquette: Shaking Hands - "The Grip" (Part 1)
By Angi
Ma Wong
The practice
of handshaking traces its origins to Europe during the Middle Ages.
Men extended their empty right hands in greeting to show that they
were not armed with weapons. In Asia, the bow has for centuries
been the proper greeting, whether it be executed from the waist,
or from a kneeling position with one's head touching the floor in
deference to a higher authority.
Basically, there
are five kinds of handshakes that you will receive from your Asian
clients and customers, and being the international citizen that
you are, you will not be taken off guard, but rather adequately
prepared to return any of these types. Remember that touching, hugging
or kissing a stranger is not a customary practice among a great
many Asians so you must go with the flow and do what the situation
dictates.
The first is
the Western handshake. Web to web, a good firm, but not bone-crushing
grip facilitates shaking hands up and down. In the States receiving
this handshake reveals a lot about your Asian business associate
for those who have been exposed to American custom with return this
heartily, e.g. an American of Asian ancestry or one who has traveled
or conducted much business here. You can almost tell the professional
women from the homemakers from the hand greeting they give.
Next:
Shaking Hands: "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
- Bowing
- What
If Someone Bows To You First?
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 1)
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands:- "The Grip" (Part 1)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Non-Handshake" (Part 3)
- "Silence
is Golden"
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