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Asian
Business Etiquette: Exchanging Business Cards - P2
By Angi
Ma Wong
After you take
the card, look at it and study the contents. Say the person's name
(try your best) and look back at the card's owner for confirmation,
smiling slightly. Ask him to pronounce his name for you AND REPEAT
IT AFTER HIM until you get it right. Asian names notwithstanding,
European/Anglo surnames are just as challenging and everyone likes
to have his/her name properly pronounced. You will be rewarded with
appreciation and brownie points because you took the time. Don't
laugh and make a tactless comment like, "This is Chinese (Japanese,
Korean) to me!"
Once you have
asked for and received someone's business card. NEVER ask for it
again on any occasion. To do so gives the message that you didn't
care enough about the card, the businessperson, or the business
relationship. The only exception to this rule is if you request
two cards at the time you are accepting one and qualify yourself
by saying, "I'd like to give your name and card to a friend of mine
who could use your service/business."
In American
etiquette, it is considered poor taste to talk about business and
exchange business cards at social functions, but that is not so
with your Asian clients and customers. Networking at social and
family events play an important part in building business relationships.
If you are invited to any social function, by all means, GO, and
bring lots of cards with you.
Next:
Shaking Hands: Part I - "The Grip"
- Bowing
- What
If Someone Bows To You First?
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 1)
- Exchanging
Business Cards (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands:- "The Grip" (Part 1)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Dead Fish" (Part 2)
- Shaking
Hands: "The Non-Handshake" (Part 3)
- "Silence
is Golden"
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