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No. Three:

| Confusion With the Use of Elements | Which Door Would Be My Main Entrance? |
| Correct Number and Color for Fishes | Three-legged Frog - How to Place? |
| Jobless and Impotent | Unscrupulous Competitors | Bad Chi from Crystals |

CONFUSION WITH THE USE OF ELEMENTS

Dear Aunt Agga,

In certain articles, you mention elements, e.g. wood and metal. What do you mean by this? I am currently redecorating my home and I am trying to apply the art of Feng Shui.

I am wondering whether I need to take down metal and wood shelves down from the education corner in particular, and what qualifies as having the fire element to put there. Thank you, for taking the time to help with this rather urgent matter.

Yours sincerely,
Kemi McKen

I think you already understand the use of elements in Feng Shui rather well. The most basic use of elements comes under the eight aspirations theory, where each living space can be divided into eight corners, as shown below:

Corner

Aspiration

Element

Color

North

Career

Water

Black,Blue

Northeast

Education

Small Earth

Yellow, Brown

East

Family/Health

Big Wood

Green

Southeast

Wealth

Small Wood

Green

South

Fame

Fire

Red

Southwest

Love

Big Earth

Yellow/Brown

West

Children

Small Metal

White/Metallic

Northwest

Mentors

Big Metal

White/Metallic

Each corner is governed by a particular element and represents an aspiration. To activate the corner, one should use either the element of the corner, or an element which produces the element represented by the corner in question.

The education corner is governed by small earth - so I believe you are concerned that if you have wood and metal there, the wood would destroy the earth and the metal would exhaust the earth.

Personally, I wouldn't take the eight aspiration theory all so seriously. As long as the shelves are not exposed, they should be quite safe. (Exposed shelves look like knives and send out very bad shar chi).

If you want to enhance the education corner, what you should use is a GLOBE - this is the most effective symbol of earth. You can also use CRYSTALS.

Other useful enhancers are CANDLES, LAMPS, RED PAINT... to represent the fire element which produces EARTH.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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WHICH DOOR WOULD BE MY MAIN ENTRANCE?

Dear Aunt Agga,

I recently learned about feng shui and want to try to "feng shui" our home. My question is this: our main entrance faces East. However, we seldom use that door to enter the house. We come in through the garage door, which also faces East, and immediately turn South to go through the door to the home. So should we use East for the garage door, or South for the door after the garage to the house?

Thanks in advance, Mary.

It is better to have a main door which looks like a main door. Not so good to have your grage door as your main door - so if you use the door inside your garage into you house which faces South, then your main door would be a South facing door. But note that one of the most important aspects in Feng Shui is your front door. Better to have a front door which has a bright hall in front of it where the chi can circulate and collect.

If I were you, I'd start using your original front door more and stop using the garage.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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CORRECT NUMBER AND COLOR FOR FISHES

Dear Aunt Agga,

I have just read Lillian Too's very interesting encyclopedia. I have some questions. I have 12 gold fish and one clinging fish. How should I count clinging fish - as a fish or not? As you recommended having one black and eight gold fish, how should I count clinging fish? Thank you for your time and participation.

Sincerely, Irina Dinov

The one black and eight gold fish combination only works for goldfish. You need eight red goldfish and one black goldfish. Clinging fish do not count - sorry!

Love, Aunt Agga.

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THREE-LEGGED FROG - HOW TO PLACE?

Dear Aunt Agga,

I was wondering about the 3-legged frog. I know it should be placed in the hall. However, should it face the door or away from it, and should it be on the hinges side or the other side?

Thank you, Freya, England.

Dear Freya,

According to the legend, where ever you find the three-legged toad, you find money, so it is best to keep the three-legged toad on the inside of your house (not the outside). You should keep it low, perhaps under a table or couch.

Some say one should turn the frog to face out towards the door in the daytime and to face into the house at night. So the frog goes out in the day to collect your money for you, and brings it back at night.

For me, I think that's too much of a hass, so I keep nine - and have them hopping in all directions, some going out to fetch money, some coming in with the money. I don't buy the daytime nightime myth because I believe some frogs are nocturnal.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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JOBLESS & IMPOTENT

Dear Aunt Agga,

I'm a 47 year old male, depressed and have just lost my job because I trusted an old friend who is my superior. I'm up to my wits and I hope that you can help.

My first problem is my job. Somehow everytime I think I am getting an offer or securing a business development, obstacles or "small people" sabotage me.

I've consulted at least 4 feng shui people and fortune tellers none of them can really give me a solution.

I'm writing also partly due to the fact that I've not have sex with my wife for 3 years already. Somehow, no matter how hard I try, I just can't get it up.

I feel very miserable.

Pls help me, Desperado.

Dear Desperado,

You do sound miserable indeed. Firstly, don't trust people so easily. Especially since you have a wife to support, perhaps you should not enter into such risky business ventures. But here are a few tips to help your career and your life:

1) Activate the North of your house with a water feature. A small fish tank or water fountain will do

2) Find out your kua number and auspicious directions, and whenever you are negotiating a new venture (whether it be a job or a partnership), make sure you are facing one of your good directions and the other party in oneof theri bad directions (IF you can arrange this).

3) Activate your mentor corner - so that your boss likes you. To do this, hang a metal windchime in the Northwest of your house.

4) Stop consulting so many feng shui masters and fortune tellers. This will only confuse you. Better to do it yourself. Why not invest some money in buying a good feng shui book and applying the theories yourself? Because you are doing it for yourself, you will probably be more careful and do it better.

5) As for your impotence, I think it's just because you are stressed out and feeling so low. You can try activating your love and romance luck - shine a big bright light in the Southwest of your house. But if you still can't get it up, go see a therapist.

Good luck.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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UNSCRUPULOUS COMPETITORS

Dear Aunt Agga,

I am trying to help a friend, who has been very good to me, get her business out of trouble. She is a scrupulous person, and has lost a lot of business because of unscrupulous competitors. (She runs an art gallery). I have had some success, but I think feng shui might help even more. Because of her situation, she can't afford help from a feng shui practitioner. Do you have any suggestions?

Her front door is black, (which she feels is bad luck already), but the room is airy. I don't know. Any advice would help.

Thank you in advance for any advice, Mary D

Dear Mary,

Which sector of the house is the front door in? And what direction does it face? A black front door need not be a bad thing if her front door is in the right sector.

If she is having a lot of trouble with unscrupulous competitors, perhaps she should check her basic landscape feng shui - for example, does she have exposed bookshelves cutting into her? Is she sitting with her back facing the door? Is she sitting facing her worst direction?

Am so sorry, I cannot help you much for lack of information, but what you CAN do for her is invest in a good basic feng shui book, where she can learn feng shui for herself. A good starting point is the Complete Illustrated Guide to Feng Shui by Lillian Too.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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BAD CHI FROM CRYSTALS

Dear Aunt Agga,

Hi! I have a few question regarding getting rid of the bad 'chi' emitted from crystals. In her books, Lillian Too says I must put the crystal in sea salt water for 7 days to prevent the crystal from giving out bad 'chi'. Does the sea water here mean water from the sea or just sea water made from table salt?

Can I just leave the crystal in tap water for 7 days to get rid of the bad 'chi'? If not, then what other way can I use to get rid of the bad chi?

My bad direction is in the south-east. So will putting crystal in the south-east side of my bedroom to activate my wealth corner be harmful to me?

Thanks in advance for answering my questions, Anonymous.

Dear Anonymous,

The exercise of soaking a crystal in sea water for 7 days is to remove all vibes contained within the crystal. Not all crystals contain bad vibes, but because you do not know where the crystal has come from or with whom the crystal has come into contact, it is better to clear the crystal of all existing energies before you start to use it.

It is not neccessary to soak the crystal in real sea water. Rock salt water is fine. But not table salt. It has to be rock salt.

Activating the Southeast to tap your wealth corner is fine. But note two things:

1) You should not activate the Southeast corner of your bedroom. The bedroom is a place of rest. Better to activate the Southeast of your living room.

2) The Southeast is governed by the wood element. Crystals belong to the Earth element. Because wood destroys earth, your crystal will do nothing to help your wealth prospects. Instead, you should activate the Southeast of your living room with a small plant, or small water feature.

Love, Aunt Agga.

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