
The year 2000. A year of new beginnings, a year of changes
and for fans of Margaret Cho, they know this is definitely her year.
In the past, Margaret Cho has been portrayed in the media as a woman
faced with drug and alcohol problems, a person who has suffered
from depression since her show "ALL AMERICAN GIRL" was
cancelled and other situations that would have knocked many stars
down to oblivion. But in Margaret Cho's case, she is standing stronger
than ever.
If anything, she has proven to the non-believers that she
is a survivor. She performed in a sold-out national tour and she
has a hit movie titled "I'M THE ONE THAT I WANT" which
made it to the top 3 out of the 250 films shown at the Seattle International
Film Festival. It was the only American film that made it to the
top 5. Her film has received rave reviews including an impressive
"Thumbs Up" from movie critic Roger Ebert. She also has
a book and an upcoming new show.
Aside from entertainment, Margaret Cho has also proven to
be a hero among the gay community. She fights for gay rights, raises
funds for AIDS research and more. In recognition for her involvement
in the community, Margaret received the first ever Golden Gate award
for Entertainment Pioneers who have made a significant difference
in promoting equal rights for all, regardless of sexual orientation
or gender identity.
One of the qualities that people admire about Margaret is
her honesty and how open she is about the details of her life. For
this interview, AC Team's second conversation since her sold-out
national tour last year (see archives below), we wanted to know
more about Margaret Cho, the person, not just the entertainer.
Suzanne Kai and Dennis A. Amith of AsianConnections.com chatted
with Margaret on the eve of the release of her movie, "I'm
the One That I Want."
AC
(DENNIS): Let's start
with a few basics before we go on to the serious questions. Where
were you born and raised? Did you grow up with a strict Korean American
upbringing?
MARGARET:
I
grew up in San Francisco and I guess it was strict but it was very
much a Korean side of strict. My parents didn't really teach us to
speak Korean and they talked about us behind our backs even though
they were right in front of us. They spoke Korean to each other but
we had no idea what they were saying. So, I kind of learned to understand
some Korean words but I really don't understand that much. They were
fairly strict.
AC
(DENNIS): Let's talk
about your recent article in "Pride Magazine." How did the
"Face of Freedom" article in PRIDE come about?
MARGARET:
They just asked me to do it. I was very honored. I loved
the other people in the magazine and it was a perfect thing for
me. I'm going to be the Grand Marshal of the Gay Pride Parade in
San Diego.
AC
(DENNIS): In the article you discuss your first job at Stormy
Leather (a lesbian fetish store). What was it like working there?
MARGARET:
Stormy Leather is a store owned and operated by lesbians. It's a
leather S&M store for alternative sexuality. Growing up in San
Francisco, I really had a pretty good handle on alternative sexuality
but it really opened me up to different experiences and people.
I think it's really great. I think that sexual freedom is so interesting
and so political and that we are allowed to do what we want. It's
really amazing. There are a lot of things you can do. I learned
so many crazy things that people do and I don't necessarily agree
with everything but I think it was a great way to grow up. Some
people, when they are teenagers have a paper route.
AC
(DENNIS): How did you explain to your parents [about] your job?
MARGARET:
I didn't tell them. They didn't know. They still don't
know. They don't know what it is. When I talk about things in my
life that are like that and there are many things like that, that's
when they really use their selective understanding of English.
AC
(SUZANNE): If you are to become a mother, what would tell your children?
Would you allow them to go out and experience this?
MARGARET:
I think I would be very honest about my life and what
I do. I know about it and I experienced things in that community
and I think that children are naturally able to handle it. You tell
them in a very loving way.
AC
(DENNIS): Hmm...Did you ever get hit on by a lot of the customers?
MARGARET:
You know it's funny. I did not really get hit on. People in Stormy
Leather were mostly in committed relationships. Most people who
are involved in alternative sexuality are really committed. It's
really fascinating!
AC
(DENNIS): You take a stand on several issues such as gay rights.
Do you see yourself getting involved in politics in the future?
MARGARET:
I would like to. I feel that entertainment and politics
are directly related. When I see the politics and entertainment
there's a real opportunity for me. So I would like to do that. I
do a lot of political work within the gay and lesbian community
in different areas. I do a lot of fundraising for AIDS research
and helping people with AIDS in AIDS clinics around the country.
I do a lot of work for an organization for gay teens. There are
different political organizations that I am involved in. I was recently
given award from GLAAD. There are things that I believe that are
very political but yet I don't want to lose sight of my job, which
is being an entertainer. That's my work. I think because I'm an
entertainer with a voice that I have this opportunity, this platform
that I can use it and use it for good.
AC
(DENNIS): What other issues are you passionate about?
MARGARET: I'm really passionate about animal
rights, women's rights and people of color. I'm passionate about
gender and size - people who are larger and that whole thing. I
think that I would like to ideally unite the struggles of people
of color, women, gays, lesbians or people of size. People who don't
really feel like they fit in or feel like they are minorities. I
want to unite them because I feel as if I embody all of them. When
we unite, and see that even though our struggles are not exactly
the same and similar, we all want equality and that when we
are together and see that we are no longer the minority, that is
when we become the majority. That to me is my most important point
I want to see the most. To really unify each different area and
show us that we all have so much in common. That's my political
statement.
AC
(DENNIS): Do you see yourself running for office or a city council
position?
MARGARET:
I don't think so. I don't think I can go as far as that
but don't know. I'm not sure.
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